Saturday, April 11, 2009

LOVE V/S HUMILIATION



Now this stuff is competely imaginative....

Nothing of this sort has EVER happened with me....

I was just thinking something, and then thought of

writing it down..

Being in a relationship, (Reminder: which I hv never been in),

there may arise situations where one might feel throttled,

suffocated or even humiliated because of their partner's

attitude, reasons of which could be many...

I was just wondering, what should one do in such situations???

When you feel so throttled, so disrespected and may be

neglected even for a brief period of time and it just leaves you

wondering where are you heading??

Where's the realtionship going??

When you just hate the person you love the most, leaving you in

two

minds...whether to end it or give it a second chance??

End it beacuse u were disrespected..even if it was owing

to some misunderstanding..why the hell did it creep in..

things must have been sorted out first...

or a second chance cz "to err is human"...that's just an excuse..

the real reason being u really love the person....

n also telling yourself,in fact warning yourself, if anything like this

happens again, u would be going for the biggest decision of ur life

and somewhere inside, hoping, that it doesn't happen cz u

won't b able to do that....

So, what does it show....love weakens you....????

or it gives you different perspectives just to avoid harsh decisions

cz harsh decisions would take their toll on you so u prefer

taking the easy road...forgive and forget...??

or may be it's an individual's choice...I may look at it in whatever

way I want to..but that person knows what he/she is doing....

But what's better..?? parting on amicable terms rather than

dragging a relationship reminnding yourself of all the 'good' times

u have had together so it breathes new life into u

and hopefully ur relationship...??

hoping everything will b alright..n dat it takes time for things

to get normalized again...

n spending every single day of ur life from then on, to bring about a

fresh, haappy change in the state of things...


Whatever it might be, nothing can

work wonders if there's no mutual effort...one-way roads

don't work here i guess....

[to be continued....]

2 comments:

  1. Hey, when U even think that U hate the person you loved, Love is gone, There is no love anymore, there is no word like HATE in LOVE.
    What follows is just a mutual understanding, U try to love the person, But actually when you ask urself, U dont.. anymore !! It happens !!
    So, LOVE V/S. HUMILIATION.. is NOMORE LOVE V/S. HUMILIATION.. :)

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  2. Enjoy the relationship till u dont hurt the other person, once u know that u r hurting other than making him happy, move on , no point in dragging dead souls....

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